Monday, December 7, 2015

Nothing is original. Steal from anywhere that resonates with inspiration or fuels your imagination. - Jyoti Dhakal

Jyoti Dhakal is 20 years old girl whose level of thinking will simply amaze us. She is beyond our thoughts and in this interview she genuinely proves us how intellectual, confident and careful woman she will become in few years.  

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Melvi - Hi Jyoti, Can you tell us what are you doing these days?
Jyoti - Well this days I am totally busy on my study.

Melvi - Congrats for winning the title Miss Beauty with a Purpose. Please tell us how was the experience of Miss Teen 2015?
Jyoti - Thank you so much. Miss teen 2015 was the best experience of my life. I have learned a lot from it. During my miss teen days, I wasn’t that confident in the beginning, but gained it as the finale approached. The sheer joy of performing on stage was so overwhelming that winning the competition did not matter anymore. I think this experience was a major reason that my confidence was sky high at miss teen queen2015. I was extremely focused and determined. I am not a peppy teenager anymore. I have grown as a person, and that has helped me ace it.

Melvi - What does really "Miss Beauty with a Purpose" means to you? 
Jyoti - People are like stained glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out,but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within .Beauty with a purpose not only define outer beauty but the inner beauty too.Being compassionate towards others and helping the underprivileged or simply anyone and not expecting anything in return is actually mean beauty with purpose.

Melvi - Is it necessary for every girl to take part in beauty contest. What's your view onthis?
Jyoti - Beauty contest is an opportunities for girls who are interested and are likely to succeed in this area. .Pageants teach the same values as sports - goal setting, dedication, sportsmanship, etc. They also encourage a very "me" oriented generation to champion a cause in their community, to volunteer and to fund raise. Participants are given a chance to show off their talent. And often, participants are given challenging questions to answer, which they must use their brains to answer.In conclusion, beauty pageants are good for females. Though there is a lot of foundation, mascara, and money involved, beauty pageants really give people a chance to show who they are.

Melvi - Are you going to be a regular contestant of beauty contest or there's another plan?
Jyoti - For few years I want to focus on my study i.e. to clear the bachelor in engineering with good marks and after that I would surely be a part of it if i get a chance.

Melvi - How much you know about current state of Nepali Modeling Industry?
Jyoti - Previously modeling industry was just a part time job and is unable to support the lives of individuals. But the scenario has entirely changed these days. Now, the modeling career has metamorphosed into one of the most rewarding and sought after career options in Nepal. Modeling is now one of the most fascinating career options in glamour world of Nepal. In fact, there has been a fabulous boost in the Nepalese ad industry with the expansion of consumerism and media. And many youths consider modeling as an attractive career option. Modeling is also considered as a gateway for entering into the national and international film industry. So, Modeling Agencies in Nepal need to understand and develop this sector considering the global modeling scenario.

Melvi - What's the best thing about you? Do you think that you have that unique style to steal the show?
Jyoti - Ahhhhh.. I think the best thing about me is I understand people very well.

Nothing is original. Steal from anywhere that resonates with inspiration or fuels your imagination. Devour old films, new films, music, books, paintings, photographs, poems, dreams, random conversations, architecture, bridges, street signs, trees and clouds, bodies of water, light and shadows. Select only things to steal from that speak directly to your soul. If you do this, your work will be authentic. Originality is non-existent. And don’t bother concealing your thievery celebrate it if you feel like it. It’s not where you take things from it’s twhere you take them to. For stealing any show the main thing is ure attitude and I think I do have that attitude and I do have a creativity to create my own style.

Melvi - People always gets upset on someone's command. Why is this? Any clue?
Jyoti - Command is the harsh way for asking for something. There’s a nature in human being. We tend to be superior and everyone has that. Due to such narcissism people get upset when someone commands them. We are people and we are supposed to get upset. It’s a human nature. 

Melvi - As a computer engineering student what's your possible chance of helping poor and needy people?
Jyoti - I would make a commercial App through which we can save some of the money and can use it for the poor and needy people. I can also develop a app which will locate hospitals which will make people easier to reach in need. If it was possible I would definitely make a app which can make food and other basic need to poor people which is possible only in my dream. So I will definitely help the poor and needy people by saving some money out of my work and use it for them. :d

Melvi - Name 5ive things that we don't know about you. 
Jyoti - 1.) I am vegetarian. 2.) Softhearted girl. 3.) I'm an emotional freak, I cry when I'm happy, or sad, or excited. 4.) I just love adventure. & 5. ) Trustworthy.

Melvi - According to you, what's so wrong about this country? Can you say few words on this?
Jyoti - The main problem is the people’s mentality. Everybody is so much busy in their own life.There is a vast different in doing and saying. Our country can easily develop but the main thing is no body is working in a correct order for the sake of country development. We have capacity to develop our own stuff on our own country but no body is working on it . there are lots of things which need to be focus to which can help further in the development . people are still backward in their thinking . todays youth are so much active and can change the country but the thing is government is not helping them focusing in it. 

Melvi - We always appreciate our likes but, what about our dislikes? Is it necessary to have dislikes in our life?
Jyoti - If your number one goal is to make sure that everyone likes and approves of you, then you risk sacrificing your uniqueness, and, therefore, your excellence. I believe people are good at heart. Still, it’s human nature to test each other’s boundaries. When you’re willing to risk being disliked, you’re able to say no when you need to. Your yeses and nos shapes your future. You could use your energy to make daily inventories of everything that’s wrong the money you don’t have, the esteem you didn’t earn, the people you disappointed. Or you could commit to being your best, and then just sit back and smile. Life will always be a balancing act. Learn to teeter in serenity. So I guess it is necessary to have dislikes in our life .

Melvi - What are the things that make you sad and why's that?
Jyoti - Whenever my parents say they’re disappointed in me, i can’t help but get sad. They’re awful, the absolute worst, but they can’t think you’re the absolute worst. Listening to certain songs makes me sad. And when I am depressed, I put on a playlist that’s titled Kill me. So I feel more depressed. Getting ditch by your friends is so sad. I have this excitement building about my fun-filled social day and then it gets ripped away from by a single text that says, “I’m sorry. 

Melvi - Lastly, this space is for you. You can say anything here, words to our readers or things we should have asked to you etc.
Jyoti - This life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will ? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about. Forgive others, forgive yourself, give a chance to others, and yourself, make a change.

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